Everyone loses when we blame

You will never change in the way you want by blaming someone else. You will also never change the other person in the way you want by blaming them. No one wins when you blame.

Blame keeps us stuck. It gives us the temporary relief of feeling right while robbing us of any real power to create change. We get to point the finger, yet we stay exactly where we are. They also stay exactly where they are, and nothing moves.

Instead of blaming, choose to take responsibility and help make it better, or choose to walk away. These are your only two useful options for creating the change you actually seek. Everything else is just a place to hide.

What would you do differently today if blaming wasn't an option?