Feel it to be it

To make a change that feels out of our comfort zone, we must choose to identify as someone who can make that change. If we want to have a courageous conversation, yet we haven’t done a lot of that in the past, we must change the way we relate to ourselves, see ourselves, speak about ourselves, and create ourselves to be a bold, courageous communicator.

Sometimes, we can dread the day ahead if it feels confronting to our current identity. If we want more power and ease, we can envision who we want to become by the end of the day and relate to ourselves as that version now.

What if the new only feels uncomfortable for your old identity, and not your emerging one?