Freedom is taking responsibility for love
All you really want is to love and be loved. And both are your responsibility.
And no, your responsibility is not to “get” yourself loved by others. It is to love yourself no matter what anyone else thinks about you, or even what you think about yourself.
And no, it’s not your responsibility to isolate yourself from the world and only spend time around people that you like. It's about truly loving and understanding the human condition.
Love begins only in one place: with you. And once you give it freely, you will see it and experience it everywhere.
What belief system is it time to let go of today that is keeping you from experiencing what you, at your essence, really want?