Say I love you instead

People don’t need fixing, they need love.

Especially when it feels like you need to solve something for someone by erasing their unerasable discomfort, consider choosing to love them instead. Maybe they don’t need to know that everything is ok. Perhaps they don’t need to know how wrong you think they are or how they could do it better. Your need to fix is about you, not about them.

Consider that they don’t need advice, correction, or new information. To truly serve, what would happen if you said “I love you” instead?

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