Security attracts insecurity

Far too many of us were never taught to truly own our worth, to stand confidently in our value and take responsibility for ourselves. This leaves so many feeling insecure, constantly seeking somewhere to project those feelings. Often, they project their insecurity onto you, mistakenly believing that dimming your light will brighten theirs. Of course, it never does.

This behavior doesn’t make them bad—it simply robs them of their own power. Your role is to protect your own. When faced with someone else’s insecurity, your work is to stay anchored in your worth and your unique contribution, no matter what. This is no small task, yet it’s what ensures you hold onto your peace and continue serving others. Responding with love might even spark a shift in how someone else sees leadership. Likewise, notice when you’re tempted to project your own doubts onto a leader in your life. Gently bring your focus back to owning your energy and worth.

The more you step into service, the more you’ll encounter others’ insecurities. Don’t let it deter you. Let it be a reminder that you’re walking a courageous path.