Take care of you to deepen your relationships
You do not need to abandon or hide your own needs to serve your relationships. The more deeply you take care of yourself, the deeper your relationships can become.
The end result of true self-care is the ability to love more deeply and receive love more freely. More love makes every relationship better.
Where do you need to stop overriding what you know and need so you can show up as your most loving self? Where do you need to allow others to care for themselves so they can be more loving?