Tolerate the right things
Being able to tolerate failure, judgment from others, adversity, and all sorts of challenges you will face on your path is key. When we can hold space for all of the emotions that come with dealing with these things, we can become resilient enough to keep growing no matter what.
However, when we become great at tolerating challenge and discomfort, there are things that we can over-tolerate. You can simultaneoulsy accept cirucmstances as they are and resolve to use all of your resources and power to change them for the better. You do not need to continue to tolerate an unsustainable financial situation, a toxic relationship, health problems, burnout, or being treated poorly.
You are powerful enough to experience all of the feelings that come with putting yourself out there in a big way. And you are also powerful enough to draw the line.