The feeing you’re really after

Most of us chase outcomes, hoping to arrive at a feeling. We work toward the promotion to feel valued, pursue the relationship to feel loved, or build the business to feel fulfilled. We postpone the very experience we're seeking until some future moment when the imaginary “right” circumstances align.

The real discipline is simpler and more immediate: connect to the feeling now. Wealth, acceptance, health, and love are like radio stations we can tune into. They are already there if we attune ourselves to them. From this frequency, we can choose to create our lives from a place of wholeness, rather than a place of “not yet enough”.

The outcome we have in mind may or may not deliver what we're really after, but our choice in this moment can—right now. When we understand our true "why," we discover we don't have to wait for permission or circumstance to feel the way we want to feel. The real outcome lives in the process, not in the achievement.

What feeling are you really after, and how could you connect to it now?